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Post  M77XNE on 4/6/2008, 4:28 am

A guy I know has asked me, via email, if he can take me out for a drink sometime....I'm not interested in him - how can I let him down in a nice and polite way. I feel really guilty, but me no likey! lol Neutral


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Post  Captain Jack on 4/6/2008, 4:48 am

Not sure if im allowed in here.................................
...................................... *puts on Pink Ladies jacket*..............................sorted

Yes say thanks but no.......easy as that, shouldn't feel guilty,just not gonna happen
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Post  M77XNE on 4/6/2008, 4:50 am

I will let you post, you have the jacket, and long hair - it's fine! lol

I can't just say that, I'd feel too guilty.

Maybe something like, "I'm flattered but bog off?!!" lol - well maybe not like that, gurrr I dunno! Sad


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Post  Captain Jack on 4/6/2008, 4:53 am

Yes thanks hahahaha..................somewhere on here i get told im cap'n jack's long lost brother!!! Suspect

ok maybe not that harsh..........................................( just finished work, still very argumentative) Laughing

Just say so, you don't need to sugar coat it. N he should respect you for that

I'M SUCH A GROWN UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Shocked when did that happen?!?!?!
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Post  darrenzs on 4/6/2008, 5:22 am

Marcus is right Max, it's best to be polite but firm.

'I'm really flatered you have asked me out for a drink......(name) but I'd rather we just remained friends?????????

Any good???
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Post  dressur on 4/6/2008, 5:29 am

M77XNE wrote:A guy I know has asked me, via email, if he can take me out for a drink sometime....I'm not interested in him - how can I let him down in a nice and polite way. I feel really guilty, but me no likey! lol Neutral

Bombard him with text messages, telling him how amazingly excited you are, and how you can't wait to see him, and what high hopes you have for the future - then mention babies!
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Post  M77XNE on 4/6/2008, 5:41 am

I think he actually already has a bambino!! EEEK lol

Okay, I will tell him! lol

Thanks for the advice guys Smile

(I'm still dreading it though!!)


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Post  dressur on 4/6/2008, 5:45 am

Wait til you get to my age - you'll be pathetically grateful for any signs of interest!!
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Post  M77XNE on 4/6/2008, 5:49 am

dressur wrote:Wait til you get to my age - you'll be pathetically grateful for any signs of interest!!

Well I am greatful of interest, however, he is just the WRONG interest i'm looking for! Lol


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Post  Captain Jack on 4/6/2008, 5:49 am

Laughing cheers...that breeds hope for the future then
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Post  Rich on 4/6/2008, 5:57 am

You could always say that your lover wouldn't approve... If that doesn't work, tell him your lover is a lovely young lady... Laugh my a**e off!

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Post  Dark Knight on 4/6/2008, 6:17 am

M77XNE wrote:A guy I know has asked me, via email, if he can take me out for a drink sometime....I'm not interested in him - how can I let him down in a nice and polite way. I feel really guilty, but me no likey! lol Neutral

isla says, be very polite say "your flattered but you remind me of my brother"


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Post  M77XNE on 4/6/2008, 6:23 am

PaulMGTF160 wrote:
M77XNE wrote:A guy I know has asked me, via email, if he can take me out for a drink sometime....I'm not interested in him - how can I let him down in a nice and polite way. I feel really guilty, but me no likey! lol Neutral

isla says, be very polite say "your flattered but you remind me of my brother"
What a fantastic way of putting it!

I'm stil putting it off, so i might just do it now.

And Rich hun, I have no lover! Lol Laughing


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Post  Rich on 4/6/2008, 6:57 am

M77XNE wrote:... And Rich hun, I have no lover! Lol Laughing
Yeah, but does he know that????

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Post  Dark Knight on 4/6/2008, 6:59 am

good thinking rich that is a good idea too!!


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Post  M77XNE on 4/6/2008, 7:14 am

No I'm still too scared to do it!! Lol Laughing


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Post  Captain Jack on 4/6/2008, 7:15 am

lol..............................stop being nice, n just get it done girl!
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Post  Captain Jack on 4/6/2008, 7:27 am

are you wimping out?
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Post  M77XNE on 4/6/2008, 7:31 am

Urmm, just a wee bit!! lol

Oh well Smile hahah


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Post  Captain Jack on 4/6/2008, 7:32 am

it's not like he's gonna smack you? or you've thrown f's n C's @ him............just tell him...........Do you need someone to hold your hand?
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Post  Dark Knight on 4/6/2008, 7:35 am

marcus mgf wrote:it's not like he's gonna smack you? or you've thrown f's n C's @ him............just tell him...........Do you need someone to hold your hand?

are you offering..... oh i!!!!

email him back, he asked you out on email thats was wimping out by him anyway


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Post  Captain Jack on 4/6/2008, 7:36 am

i'll hold your hand! yeah its not really the way id go about it either. No
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Post  M77XNE on 4/6/2008, 7:38 am

It was sweet thought eh? - poor guy!


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Post  Captain Jack on 4/6/2008, 7:40 am

Not by email!!!!!!!! if he'd asked you out right..............ok, even a note suggests an impish, childlike innocence to it but, NOT EMAIL!!!!!!!!!! Big eyes! No
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Post  M77XNE on 4/6/2008, 7:44 am

okay, not e-mail - fair enough! lol


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